LOVE, THE MEASURE.
October 29, 2023.
Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time – A.
"You shall love the Lord, your God… You shall love your
neighbor as yourself.”
A Yiddish proverb says: “Love your neighbor, even if he
plays the trombone.” And a Sicilian proverb adds: “Who loves God with all his
heart, lives happy and dies happy.”
We can never say enough about love, for love is all that
matters in life. Either in our relationship with God or in our relationship
with each other, love is the reason, love is the mobile, and love is the
measure. Nothing good can be done without love. And besides, all that has been
done was because of love. One just needs to look back at the creation, the
mystery of salvation, and redemption, and ask, if there is anything in all
these which is not the fruit of love. Even when we sin, God forgives us because
of his love. He is the God of love and mercy. Therefore, in response to so
great a love, we should love God beyond and above all things. The primacy of
God should be our act of love to him.
The Catechism states: "In response to the question
about the first of the commandments, Jesus says: "The first is, 'Hear, O
Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one; and you shall love the Lord your God
with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with
all your strength.' The second is this, 'You shall love your neighbor as
yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these." The apostle
St. Paul reminds us of this: "He who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the
law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery, You shall not kill, You
shall not steal, You shall not covet,' and any other commandment, are summed up
in this sentence, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' Love does no
wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law." CCC
2196
Today’s liturgy is a call to love. It is all about the love
we owe to God, and the love we also owe to our neighbor. We could hear St. Paul
saying to the Romans in a warning tune: “Let no debt remain outstanding, except
the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has
fulfilled the law.” Rom 13:8. Love of God and love of the neighbor are like the
two legs for a balanced human and spiritual life. First and foremost, there is
the centrality of love for God. We cannot live without God and even more, we
cannot live without loving him beyond everything; with all that we are body and
soul, and with all that we have, material as well as spiritual possessions.
Nevertheless, our love for God will sound like a mere utopia or simple words if
we do not concretize it in the love of our neighbor. Our love for our neighbor
is, thus, the substantial and tangible sign of the love for God that we express
in faith and obedience.
Hence, the answer of Jesus to the scholar who tested him
asking: “Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?” The Lord just
led him back to the first article of the Torah, the 'Shemah Israel': “You shall
love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all
your mind." This is the quintessential Jewish prayer. It is also a
proclamation of faith, a law, and a daily pledge of allegiance to the one true
God. The ‘Shema Israel’ sets the unicity of God and the primacy of love.
The Lord Jesus, then, will go beyond, to point out to the
scholar the concrete expression of the love for God: "You shall love your
neighbor as yourself..." God is the measure of love, but the neighbor is
the means of the true love. One can show how much he loves God only through how
he relates to his fellows, and especially to the most in need. Love cannot and
must not remain only abstract or a mere affirmation of religiosity. It is good
to be a good churchgoer. It is great and highly advisable to belong to all the
groups and associations in your parish. This shows how you love God. But you
will prove your love and make it bear fruit only through the way you relate to
others and how you love them. "You shall love the Lord, your God… You
shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Jesus says, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” He
is not calling us for an unrealistic or unrealizable sacrifice. Love your
neighbor as yourself. We should not try to love our neighbor more than
ourselves; no one can do so. But we should also not dare to love the neighbor
less than we love ourselves, this will lead to selfishness. Give your neighbor
what good you have in store just as if you were giving it to your own self.
God, in today’s liturgy, calls us for solidarity and empathy.
It is a call for a sense of responsibility and compassion toward each other.
Put to needs of the neighbor first as if it were your own.
Unfortunately, we live in a world and societies where
individualism, indifference, and the self have become the measure of
everything, even of love. As we said, it is not a bad thing to love oneself.
But if your love for yourself becomes a hindrance to the love you owe to God
and others, you are an idolater. Many people care no more for the rights of
others. Not only so, we abuse the poor, the widow, the orphan, the
marginalized. We deprive them of their necessities. The Lord warns us in the
first reading, "If you wrong the widow and the orphan, my wrath will flare
up against you."
We are urged, therefore, like Paul praises the
Thessalonians, to turn from idols and praise God. And the first idol we should
turn away from is the self so that we can love others as we love ourselves and
love God.
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